| HISTORICAL NOTE
Ohio Yearly Meeting was set off from
Baltimore Yearly Meeting, and was originally composed of most Friends west of
the Allegheny Mountains. The first Yearly Meeting in Ohio was held at Short
Creek, beginning the 14th of Eighth Month, 1813. In 1816 a new house was
completed at Mount Pleasant, where the Yearly Meeting convened that year. The
Conservative Yearly Meeting continued to meet at Mt. Pleasant until 1878.
Beginning with that year it has been held at Stillwater, east of
Barnesville.
In the year 1819, a Book of Discipline was
completed and published, and with a very few minor changes made from time to
time, this has formed the written code for this branch of the Society of
Friends in Ohio for more than one hundred years.
In 1921, the last edition of the
Discipline being almost exhausted, the subject of reprinting was brought before
the Yearly Meeting, and was referred to the Meeting for Sufferings (now the
Representative Meeting) to consider whether some minor changes might be made
before having another edition printed.
A committee was appointed in that body to
take the subject under consideration, and its report was adopted by the Yearly
Meeting in the Ninth Month, 1922.
As an outgrowth of a concern of many
members of the Yearly Meeting that our Book of Discipline should be phrased and
arranged in such a way that it might more fully meet the needs of the Church
for our time and still be founded in Truth, the Yearly Meeting in 1959
authorized the Representative Meeting to initiate a study of the existing
Discipline through the direct action of the various Monthly Meetings.
Accordingly a committee was appointed to encourage and assist, and a series of
discussion and study groups was set up, which have devoted much earnest
consideration and prayerful dedication to this important concern.
We hope that this handbook will serve to
guide and assist our working together as we seek to serve our Divine Master.
This 2001 printing ofour Book of Discipline reflects a number of small changes
in wording and some additions as approved by the regular sessions of Ohio
Yearly Meeting between 1976 and the present. We refer anyone wishing further
historical information to A Brief History of Ohio Yearly Meeting, by
Charles P. Morlan (1959) and A Short History of Conservative Friends, by
John Brady (1992). INTRODUCTION
In the morning of the Gospel day, the
apostles and disciples believed it was not only desirable but necessary to meet
together for the consolation and strength one of another; and from the nature
and design of the gospel, it brought them peace and good- will. A care then
arose for the edification of the church, and that all, being of one family,
might be of one mind. With great yearning and anguish of
spirit, George Fox sought the Light and found occasional openings which brought
him a degree of peace and comfort, until at last he heard that voice which
spoke to his inmost soul: "There is one, even Christ Jesus, that can speak to
thy condition." In speaking of the voice, George Fox said, "When I heard it, my
heart did leap for joy."
He found the way to communion with God
without aid of ritual or clergy, and henceforth his distinctive message to his
generation was that Christ speaks directly to each human soul who seeks Him.
Spiritual life depends upon direct communion with Him, and all men may find
salvation and life in Him.
The founders of the Religious Society of
Friends were inspired with a degree of the love and goodwill which introduced
the dispensation of the gospel of Christ. We are engaged, therefore, not only
to meet together for the worship of God, but also for the exercise of a
Christian care over each other, for the preservation of all in unity of faith
and practice, answerable to the description which He, the ever blessed
Shepherd, gave of His flock. "By this shall all men know that ye are my
disciples, if ye have love one to another" (John 13:35).
This belief in the immediate presence of
the Light of Christ within the soul, and in His power to transform men into
sons of God has always been the vital message of Friends. It is a faith that
does not stand on ritual or creed, but on the experience of the presence of God
in the individual heart. It is universal in its scope, and speaks to the
spiritual needs of all men.
We believe that true baptism is the
experience of being filled with Divine love which cleanses from all
unrighteousness. John said, "I indeed have baptized you with water: but He
shall baptize you with the Holy Ghost" (Mark 1:8). It is the change and
purification within, the spiritual fact rather than the outward symbol, which
is indeed the true baptism.
Friends place special emphasis on the ever
present Holy Spirit in the hearts of men. This power we call the Light Within
or the Light of Christ. We believe that a seed of this spirit is in every man.
The basis of faith is thus the belief that God endows each human being with a
measure of His own Divine Spirit. He leaves no one without witness, but gives
the light of His truth and presence to men of all races and walks of life.
Love, the outworking of this Divine Spirit, is the most potent influ- ence that
can be applied to the affairs of men. The Society of Friends believes this
application of love to the whole of life to be the core of the Christian
doctrine. As within ourselves we become conscious of the Inner Light or the
Christ within and submit ourselves to His leadings, we are enabled to live in
conformity to the will of our Heavenly Father.
Growing directly out of this belief in the
Inward Light of Christ is our ideal of worship. In our assemblies the Holy
Spirit speaks directly to the human soul, and worship is a personal communion
with God and a yielding of our wills to the Divine will, for which no form or
aid of clergy is necessary. This communion may be realized in a true and vital
way though there be no vocal service. A living silence may be so filled with
the Divine Presence that all who worship become conscious of it and are drawn
together in unity under the power of His love. We concur with George Fox where
he states, "The least member in the church hath an office, and is serviceable;
and every member hath need one of another."
As all unite before the true Head of the
Church, a spiritual democracy becomes a reality. Vocal service in such a
meeting, whether prayer or exhortation or teaching, should be uttered under the
direct guidance and authority of the Holy Spirit. We fully recognize the
importance of intellectual and spiritual training of each member in preparation
for any service which may be laid upon him, so that when the commission is
given he may serve with his fullest ability as well as with a ready and glad
heart.
We would conclude this introduction by
desiring, in an espe- cial manner, that our youth may be early and fully
instructed in our religious principles, and in the nature and design of our
Christian testimonies, and through Divine assistance be enabled to maintain our
holy calling by conversation and conduct consistent with godliness and honesty.
Each person must humbly and prayerfully seek individual guidance and follow his
understanding of God's leading. He will be helped by reading the Bible, and
especially by pondering the marvelous life and teachings of our Lord and
Saviour Jesus Christ. THE MEETING FOR WORSHIP
The Yearly Meeting has a heartfelt concern
that our meetings offer a form of worship which is simple, pure, and
spiritual.
We meet together in silence and strive to
free our minds and hearts for the purpose of spiritual worship. We must then
wait in humble reverence for the spiritual ability to worship the Lord of
Heaven and Earth in a manner acceptable to Him.
As each soul feels a spirit of
supplication answered by the quickening influence of the Holy Spirit, we
approach the Throne of Grace; that is to say, we are enabled to enter into an
attitude of true worship, in gratitude and praise.
Though the nearness to God may result in
spoken ministry or vocal prayer, the distinctive excellence of heavenly favor
consists in the direct communication with the Heavenly Father by the inward
revelation of the Spirit of Christ.
It is urged that Friends encourage their
children and others under their care in the habit of regular and orderly
attendance at both First-day and other meetings. Such should be taught, in
proportion to their understanding, how to wait in stillness upon the Lord, that
they, too, may receive their portion of His spiritual favor through the
tendering influence of His Holy Spirit.
Drowsiness and habitual tardiness are not
necessarily evidence of a negligent attitude toward the living purpose of our
meetings for worship, but because they might appear so, both should be avoided
as far as possible, lest they become hindrances to others present.
In preparation for meeting, the individual
may find that he becomes quiet in expectation, or he may desire to read
Scripture or other devotional material as a quieting discipline. Sometimes
First-day school, a discussion group, a family meeting or reading is found
helpful in this preparation process.
We appoint an hour to meet for worship.
The meeting begins in silence, according to the injunction, "Be still and know
that I am God" (Psalms 46:10). Friends thus allow themselves to become quiet by
putting aside words, thoughts of business, cares, and topics of the day.
Not all Friends can become truly quiet
instantly or at every meeting. It cannot be done at will; indeed, "will" too
often proves an obstacle. After a time, however, a number of worshippers do
seem to be sharing the Presence of a guiding Spirit. Vocal ministry or prayer
may or may not occur, springing from the heart of one or more worshippers. Any
who feel called by an inward urging of the Holy Spirit to speak are advised to
do so, simply and clearly.
As the meeting continues, there comes a
time when a Friend, chosen beforehand, feels the appropriate time has come to
close the meeting, and shakes hands with his nearest neighbor.
BUSINESS MEETINGS
The Society of Friends endeavors in all
its business meetings to conserve and nurture the spiritual worship already
described. The following method of conducting business has been found equally
effective in large or small groups. A business meeting begins, and should also
end, in worship. As business is brought before them, Friends try to continue in
a spirit of search for divine guidance. It naturally follows that there can be
no rightful or satisfactory decision of a matter until there is a large measure
of unity in it. Thus our business is decided by the corporate "sense of the
meeting," and not by a majority vote.
As business proceeds Friends speak to it,
each according to his best insight. Often the insights of several Friends
contribute to a decision more serviceable than any single suggestion. As
Friends approach agreement, the Clerk composes a minute declaring what the
meeting's will appears to be. When a minute is finally approved, it becomes
part of the permanent record. If the meeting fails to reach agreement on an
issue, or declines to deal with it, a brief minute is prepared either
dismissing it or postponing the decision to a future time.
NEW
MEETINGS
Since all of the Society's business should
proceed from worship, each worship group is also a potential business group. A
group which has met regularly for weekly worship, and has grown to include
several families, may organize and function as a business meeting. The Monthly
Meeting, historically, is the basic business unit of the Society. A new group,
ready for organization as a Monthly Meeting, should seek help, advice, and
recognition from an established Yearly Meeting through one of its subordinate
meetings. When such a meeting is satisfied as to the stability of a new
meeting, it may formally organize as a Monthly or Preparative Meeting.
Existing Monthly Meetings should
correspond with, visit, and encourage worship groups which have not yet
organized. Such informal groups should name a person to serve as correspondent.
When the meeting is organized, the Clerk will take on this duty.
MEMBERSHIP
Just as for the earliest Christian church,
so for the Society of Friends, the membership constitutes the body of the
church, under Christ, our Head. "So we, being many, are one body in Christ, and
every one members one of another" (Romans 12:5). Consequently, membership is
considered a privilege entailing a corresponding responsibility, first of all
toward Christ, and secondly toward one another.
Birthright or
Associate Membership
Parents may request Associate or
Birthright membership for their children. Birthright and Associate members are
eligible to take full part in meeting affairs. Birthright or Associate
membership will end at age 25. If a person has not requested alternate
membership by that time, the Overseers should meet with that person to
determine whether continued membership in the meeting is appropriate, and what
form that might take.
Forms of Adult Membership
Although we realize that there are many
different stages in an individual's spiritual journey and many levels of
understanding, we believe that to be an effective participant in a covered
meeting for business an individual must be open to the experience of the
Divinity of Christ and must have an under- standing of the necessity to
surrender oneself to the Will of God as shown to us by the Power of Christ
within us.
Waiting
Membership
Those considering adult membership who do
not yet feel comfortable with this surrender, feeling the Tender Guide and
wishing to maintain established ties with Ohio Yearly Meeting, are encouraged
to apply for Waiting Membership. Such members would continue to be nurtured by
the Meeting through newsletters, phone calls, and visitation. Waiting Members
would not be eligible as participants in meetings for business, although they
would be welcomed as observers and worshippers with us. At the discretion of
the Monthly Meetings, Waiting Members may be appointed to serve on committees,
except Nominating Committee or as a committee convenor. It is to be hoped that
in this way members might not be cut off from our Meeting, but that over time
the tender leadings of Christ might bring them to Full Membership with us.
Affiliate
Membership
This form of membership provides one way
for persons living at a distance from established meetings of Ohio Yearly
Meeting to be formally affiliated with us. Affiliate membership is intended to
provide spiritual support from and connection to Ohio Yearly Meeting for
Friends who lie outside our normal geographic area and who feel a sense of
spiritual isolation. This is not meant to discourage those who, living at a
distance, wish to participate as full members in the business of our meetings.
Monthly Meetings may accept such persons as full members.
A person who wishes to become an Affiliate
member should make application to a specific Monthly meeting. The process out-
lined below under "Application for Membership" is to be followed.
Applicants for Affiliate membership who
are not already members of another Friends Meeting may be directly accepted as
Affiliate members. When applicants are already members of another meeting, they
may be accepted concurrently as Affiliate members in OYM. In that case
applicants are asked to consider whether they can live in harmony with their
Christian faith and at the same time remain members of their present meeting.
As long as the Lord's truth is being served, such Friends are encouraged to
remain members of the meeting where they reside, seeking to live faithfully
where God has placed them.
Affiliate members are considered valued
members of our Christian fellowship. They are encouraged to attend our business
meetings when they can do so, as observers rather than as full participants in
the decision making process. At the discretion of the Monthly Meetings,
Affiliate Members may be appointed to serve on committees, except Nominating
Committees or as a committee convener. Affiliate Members are not eligible for
appointment as officers (for example, clerk) in our meetings.
The meeting which has accepted Affiliate
members should see that regular spiritual support, encouragement, and
fellowship is maintained at frequent intervals by such means as letters,
exchange of helpful literature, phone calls, and visits back and forth. All
members when travelling for any reason are encouraged to visit Affiliate
members and other isolated Friends.
Full and Active
Membership
Full and Active Membership in Ohio Yearly
Meeting requires a commitment to be an active part of the meeting community.
Full and Active Membership should not be viewed as a right or a privilege but
as a covenant/commitment to this particular expression of Christ's body. This
commitment entails a character of servanthood, as exemplified by Jesus' washing
his disciples' feet. It includes responsibility for the continued spiritual
growth of oneself and other members of the community.
Those individuals seeking Full and Active
Membership who are not able to join with the meeting on a regular basis should
work with the Overseers to develop an action plan for their fullest
participation. This might include a commitment to attend a given number of
meetings during the year, and a plan for close two-way communication with the
meeting. If such a plan seems unworkable, such members might be encouraged to
seek Affiliate Membership until such time as their circumstances permit fuller
participation.
Application
for Membership
An application for membership is made in
writing to the Overseers, who, if satisfied, are to lay it before the Monthly
Meeting. This meeting appoints a committee to meet with the applicant. When
satisfied of the sincerity of his belief of the truths which we hold and his
desire to let this faith govern his life, the committee reports to the Monthly
Meeting, which, if satisfied with the report, makes a minute recording the
applicant's acceptance into membership. The Meeting then appoints a Friend or
two to notify the new member and welcome him into our midst.
Parents or Guardians may apply for
membership for minor children. Such request should be made to the Overseers,
who, if satisfied, shall present it to the Monthly Meeting, and unless a good
reason for denying the request is apparent, Monthly Meetings are directed to
receive such children into membership.
One whose membership has been discontinued
and who desires to be reinstated may be received back into membership in the
same or another Monthly Meeting by our usual procedure of application.
Recording of Membership
Each Monthly Meeting is directed to
appoint a recorder, whose duty it is to keep in a bound book provided for the
purpose, a chronological record of each change in the membership. The record
book must show all births, deaths, marriages, admissions to and removals from
membership in order of occurrence. In addition to this, a looseleaf record of
each individual member and sojourning member shall be kept, arranged in
alphabetical order, in a binder.
Monthly Meetings are further directed to
appoint committees annually to examine and report upon these records, and to
give such assistance as may be necessary to keep the books in order.
It is also recommended that Monthly
Meetings, possibly through their Overseers, review their membership lists
periodically, contact inactive members and release from membership those who
are no longer interested or who cannot be reached.
Certificates
We admonish Friends to be sure of their
leadings before changing their residence, weighing carefully the values to be
gained against those of greater stability in the lives of themselves and
particularly of their children.
Sojourning
It is recommended that all members moving
beyond the limits of their Monthly Meeting request their membership be
transferred to a meeting nearer their new residence at the time of their
removal or soon after. Friends moving for a limited period of time are
encouraged to take with them temporary, or Sojourning Certificates of
Membership, which retain full membership in their home meeting. If a Friend
removes outside the limits of the meeting in which he has Sojourning
membership, such Sojourning membership shall cease unless he and the meeting
agree to continue his Sojourning membership for special reasons.
Removal
When request for a certificate of removal
is made, the Monthly Meeting is to appoint a committee of two or more Friends
to prepare a suitable certificate, if nothing appears to prevent, and present
it to the meeting for its approval.
When a Monthly Meeting receives
certificates of removal for persons from other meetings, the persons shall be
considered members as from the dating of the certificate. These certificates
should be promptly recorded, as should all certificates of removal given out by
a Monthly Meeting.
Statement of
Membership
Isolated members who desire a statement
(certificate) of their membership-standing should inform their Monthly Meeting
of the nature of their request, and Monthly Meetings should use their
discretion in the matter.
Termination
of Membership
If a member offers his resignation, either
the Overseers or a committee appointed by the Monthly Meeting should visit the
individual in love, inquire into the cause of his resignation and, if
appropriate, endeavor to bring him back into fellowship with Friends. If his
purpose continues unchanged, and the meeting accedes, a minute may be made
stating that he is released at his own request. The individual should be
notified at once, in writing, of this action.
Letters written in acceptance of a
resignation should always manifest an affectionate regard for the person thus
severing connections with our Society.
If a member disregards the obligations of
membership, or fails to show interest in the meeting, thus indicating that he
does not value his membership with Friends, the Overseers or a committee
appointed by the Monthly Meeting may make loving contact with him and try to
bring back his interest in the meeting. If he fails to respond to such friendly
concern, or if he cannot be contacted over an extended period of time, the
Monthly Meeting may make a minute of the case stating that his name is removed
from the membership list.
Any member who has taken actions which put
him out of unity with his meeting and who is inclined to make an
acknowledgment, may present a written and signed statement to the Monthly
Meeting. He should retire from the meeting after the acknowledgment is
read.
The acknowledgment should be considered on
the basis of the offender's sincerity and contrition. After the Monthly Meeting
makes its decision the person should be notified. The same procedure applies to
members under the care of Overseers or a committee for any offence.
If any member feels disunity with Friends
or behaves in a manner that gives the Overseers grave concern, he may be dealt
with in a similar manner. This should always be done in a loving spirit with
the hope that he will again join in Christian unity with Friends.
In any situation when a person is
released from membership other than by his own request, he should be promptly
notified of the action and told that he has the right to appeal to the
Quarterly Meeting.
Maintaining
Contacts
Isolated Friends should not be neglected
by their fellow members. Meetings are urged to contact absent members at least
once a year, giving them help and encouragement whenever possible.
ROUTINE
ADMINISTRATION
In order to handle the routine business of
the Society and carry out the concerns of Friends, the following organization
of our worship groups into meetings for business is customary, a plan which was
originally developed by George Fox. The basic unit is the "Monthly Meeting"
which usually consists of one local meeting for worship. Where for some reason,
such as fewness of numbers or newness of one congregation, it is desirable for
two or more meetings to comprise a Monthly Meeting, the local groups are known
as Preparative Meetings. They are responsible for preparing business for the
Monthly Meeting, as well as handling what has to do specifically with their own
individual group.
"Quarterly Meetings," which meet four
times in the year for spiritual fellowship, for handling any business or
concerns pertaining to the whole group, and for forwarding business to the
Yearly Meeting, usually consist of two or more Monthly Meetings.
The "Yearly Meeting" is the annual
gathering for worship and business of several Quarterly Meetings. In this
structure, the decisions of each larger meeting take precedence over those of
the smaller meetings comprising it.
The
Monthly Meeting
The Monthly Meeting alone has the
responsibility for admission, recording and transferring of membership. It
records the names and addresses of members, and is responsible for extending to
them both spiritual care and such material aid as may sometimes be needed. It
provides for the oversight of meetings for worship, of marriages and of
funerals.
Each Monthly Meeting is expected to report
to and to send representatives to its Quarterly Meeting, and to extend care to
and receive reports from its constituent Preparative Meetings, if any.
The Monthly Meeting is responsible for the
collection of funds needed for the work of its own and superior meetings. It
may hold title to real estate or other properties, and may undertake the
administration of trust funds. (If the members prefer, such funds may be placed
in charge of the Yearly Meeting Fiduciary Trustees.)
It recognizes Ministers of the Gospel. It
appoints Overseers, Clerks, a Treasurer, Trustees, Elders. It may appoint
committees for leadership, counsel, ministry, or other purposes, all for stated
periods of time. The concern of any member for extension of Friends' work into
new fields, or for taking up of specific tasks, may be introduced for the
consideration or support of the Monthly Meeting. In short, the Monthly Meeting
is free to undertake any work, or to assume any function consistent with our
principles, which is not specifically assigned to some other meeting.
The Monthly Meeting may undertake, usually
with the cooperation of the Quarterly Meeting, the oversight of newly started
meetings; helping, advising, and encouraging all such forms of outreach.
On due notice given to the membership and
clerks, the Monthly Meeting may be called into special session by its body of
overseers.
The
Quarterly Meeting
The Quarterly Meeting, covering a larger
area and represent- ing the insights of a larger number of Friends, occupies a
valuable intermediary place among the Monthly Meetings.
Its functions are mainly of two kinds.
First, for coordinating or confirming concerns referred to it by a constituent
meeting for its guidance or broader outlook and larger wisdom; or, on occasion,
for its additional weight in upholding a decision made under particularly
difficult circumstances. A second and more perfunctory role is the carrying
forward of routine reports or real concerns from the constituent meetings to
the Yearly Meeting. It also has the duty of appointing its own representatives
to the Yearly Meeting.
Normally, its most useful function would
seem to be that of helpful counselor to its Monthly Meetings, stimulating them
to greater activity or outreach, and confirming their efforts to encourage
throughout the membership a greater realization of the evergrowing revelations
of the Truth.
Like the Monthly Meeting, the Quarterly
Meeting may appoint for definite periods committees for various services, as
well as its own officers.
Procedures For Business Meetings
The right conduct of our business
meetings, even in matters of routine, is important to our spiritual life, for
in so far as Friends are concerned in promoting the Kingdom of God, we should
rightly feel that its business is a service for Him.
When we meet together, therefore, to
transact the business of the Society, the same spiritual fellowship realized in
our times of worship together should continue through our meetings for
business. The practice of beginning and concluding our meetings for business
affairs with a time of worship is of the greatest significance.
It is important for purposes of clarity
that all minutes regarding actions to be taken by the meeting, and those
relevant to issues of Faith, be read in final form and approved by the meeting
before the close of that meeting. Friends are reminded that inspired clerkship
requires the continued prayerful support of the gathered body.
All members are encouraged to attend all
business meetings, realizing that the spiritual nurture and fellowship and the
sense of community which our membership confers upon us must be maintained by
our common efforts, and that the loving concern which we feel for our Friends
must be shown in our actions.
A committee should be appointed annually
in each Quarterly, Monthly, and Preparative Meeting, to nominate a clerk or
clerks to serve for the following year. The clerks are to preside at all
business meetings, keep accurate records of proceedings in a book provided for
the purpose, and handle all correspondence of the meeting. Monthly Meetings,
particularly, are advised to attend to and finish all business with care and
dispatch, that nothing may suffer through delay.
It is the decision of the Yearly Meeting,
as a general rule for all cases, that where any Monthly or Quarterly Meeting
has occasion for, and requests, copies of any papers, minutes, or records of
another Monthly or Quarterly Meeting, the same should be granted. When serious
differences occur among Friends and are recorded in the Monthly or Quarterly
Meeting minutes, all parties shall be furnished copies of the minutes so they
can understand each other better.
Monthly and Quarterly Meetings are to
record all minutes or letters of introduction given to Friends traveling in the
ministry. When the concern of a Friend has been carried out, he is to return
his minute to the meeting which issued it, where its return is also to be
recorded.
When any new Monthly Meeting is set up,
this is to be done under the care of a Quarterly Meeting. Similarly, new
Quarterly meetings are set up with the advice and approval of their Yearly
Meeting. Preparative Meetings are set up under the care of a Monthly Meeting.
(The same procedures are followed if meetings are being laid down.) When any
new meeting is officially opened, it should be attended by a group of Friends
appointed by the meeting which is supervising its setting-up. However, new
meetings for worship are always to be welcomed and encouraged and promptly
offered any direct help from such Friends as feel drawn to meet with them.
All appointments of officers or
committees should be made under conditions clearly defined as to limitation or
renewal.
In the session of the Monthly Meeting
preceding each Quarterly Meeting, a few Friends are to be appointed
representatives to attend that Meeting. Similarly, in the session of a
Quarterly Meeting immediately preceding Yearly Meeting, at least four
representatives shall be appointed to attend Yearly Meeting. (See Yearly
Meeting Procedure, below).
Representation
Representatives to whatever meeting are
advised to be punctual in their attendance. Those appointed to the Yearly
Meeting, in particular, are further advised to send timely notice if likely to
be prevented from attending; also, not to withdraw early without obtaining
consent of the Meeting.
It should not be overlooked that an
essential part of the duty of any representative is to report back to the
meeting which he represents some adequate account of the proceedings or
concerns discussed in the meeting so attended.
The Yearly
Meeting
Our Yearly Meeting is designed to have general oversight of
our Society, and to transact its business. It is both a sober and a joyous
opportunity for its members to meet together in unity of purpose. As a
consequence of the united spiritual concern felt by the attenders, and the deep
searching for the Divine Will pervading the whole assembly, its business
meetings, as well as those for worship, become times of spiritual
refreshing.
Procedure
Clerks for the Yearly Meeting are
appointed annually by the Quarterly Meeting representatives. They preside at
the meetings for business, read reports, record minutes and answer routine
correspondence. Names of Quarterly Meeting representatives, and all written
reports, are to be given to the Clerks well in advance of the session at which
they are to be read.
Representatives, if unable to attend all
sessions, should advise the Yearly Meeting Clerk.
The Nominating Committee, to be appointed
as directed by the Yearly Meeting, must be a representative body. It is to
bring forward nominations for all appointments referred to it by the Yearly
Meeting.
A Document Committee is to be appointed
annually to read all epistles directed to the Yearly Meeting and to select what
seems most helpful to be read to the whole assembly.
A Treasurer is to be appointed annually to
have charge of funds, to pay bills, and distribute appropriations, at the
direction of the Yearly Meeting or the Representative Meeting. His accounts are
to be examined yearly by an Auditing and Budget Committee which is also to draw
up a budget for the needs of the coming year. The Treasurer should notify the
Monthly Meetings of their quotas. The subject of apportionment of funds and
distribution of documents should be occasionally reviewed by the Quarterly
Meeting representatives to Yearly Meeting.
The minutes and proceedings of the Yearly
Meeting are to be printed each year and distributed to all members through the
Monthly Meetings as soon as possible after the close of the sessions.
The Administrative Queries
In order that we may remind ourselves of
the importance of conducting our affairs in an orderly manner, and so that the
Yearly Meeting may be informed of the state of the Society, it is directed that
the following administrative queries be read and answered once in the year by
each Monthly and Quarterly Meeting, and a written report forwarded to the
Yearly Meeting. (The General Queries will be found in the section on Guidance
and Counsel, see pages 20-22.)
1st Adm. Query. What new meetings have been established?
Have any meetings been discontinued?
2nd Adm. Query. Are schools encouraged for the education of
our youth under the instruction of teachers in sympathy with us? Do parents
take an active interest in the administration and quality of teaching of the
schools which their children attend? Do they send their children of high school
age to Friends' schools whenever possible? Is each Meeting making effective
efforts to aid parents in the suitable religious instruction of their
children?
3rd Adm. Query. Have the General Queries been read and
deliberately pondered and answered in all our meetings? Have the Advices been
regularly read? Is the best possible time chosen for their reading, suitable
for deliberate consideration of them by all Friends and attenders for their
individual, spiritual refreshment?
4th Adm. Query. Are former minute books, all interment
charts and all records of similar importance, stored in a suitable fireproof
safe or vault?
5th Adm. Query. Are our meetings for business regularly
held; fully, and promptly attended? Are they conducted in a loving and solemn
concern to make concerted effort toward unity of spirit?
The Representative Meeting
Between annual sessions, urgent business
of the Yearly Meeting is to be conducted by a Representative Meeting consisting
of thirty persons, six of whom are appointed annually by the Yearly Meeting for
five year terms. The Representative Meeting is to meet regularly at least three
times in the year. Special meetings may be called by the clerk at the request
of four or more of its members. Twelve members present are required to conduct
business, including representatives from at least two Quarterly Meetings. The
Representative Meeting is to keep written minutes of its proceedings and
present them to the Yearly Meeting annually for its approval. Members of the
Representative Meeting are urged to give a brief report of the business of the
Representative Meeting at their next monthly meeting for business.
The duties of the Representative Meeting
are as follows:
1. In general, to act for the Yearly
Meeting when it is not in session.
2. To represent the Yearly Meeting, and to
appear on its behalf, whenever the interest or reputation of the Society of
Friends may call for it.
3. To authorize any material to be
published and distributed under the name of the Yearly Meeting, including any
memorials of deceased Friends.
4. To extend to individuals under
suffering for testimonies, such advice and assistance as their cases may
require and, if necessary, to apply to persons in authority, or to the
government, on their behalf.
5. To assist in the care of the Yearly
Meeting House.
The Representative Meeting may draw on the
Treasurer of the Yearly Meeting to cover its expenses.
The Representative Meeting is not to adopt
any article of faith or discipline which has not been authorized by the Yearly
Meeting.
GUIDANCE AND COUNSEL
The Society of Friends is a brotherhood in
search of Christ's guidance from day to day. In a religious society such as
ours, the responsibility of one for another is a continuing challenge to all.
To meet this challenge adequately, the Society has sought continuously to face
its responsibilities toward its individual members.
Two main methods of guidance are used.
First, the Yearly Meeting directs that a series of General Queries be regularly
read and answered in all our meetings; also, that a series of Advices be read
aloud regularly and opportunity given for their serious consideration.
The second form of guidance used by the
Yearly Meeting is through the Ministers, Elders and Overseers, all of whom meet
together in a Meeting for Ministry and Oversight.
The
General Queries and Advices
When these were first instituted, it was the design of the
Yearly Meetings to provide a means for maintaining a general oversight of the
membership pertaining to our Christian life and conduct. It remains this Yearly
Meeting's heartfelt desire that good order and unity may be maintained among
us.
To further this purpose, the Yearly
Meeting feels that the attention of each member of the Society should be drawn
at regular intervals to individual self-examination. To aid the members in this
exercise, a series of both Queries and Advices is provided to impress upon the
minds of us all various principles and testimonies which should guide our daily
lives.
Queries
The following Queries are directed to be
read, pondered, and answered once in the year in each Monthly and Quarterly
Meeting, in a deliberate and unhurried manner. Answers to two of the queries
(three in Second Month) are to be forwarded to each Quarterly Meeting, where
these queries and answers from each Monthly Meeting are to be read, and a
summary report approved. The Quarterly Meeting clerk then collects these
summary reports throughout the year, and forwards the entire group to the
Yearly Meeting.
1st Query. Are meetings for worship well and punctually
attended? Is our behavior therein conducive to meditation and communion with
God? Do we maintain a waiting spiritual worship and a free gospel ministry? Do
we welcome others to share this fellowship with us?
2nd Query. Do we cherish a forgiving spirit, and strive to
"walk in love, as Christ also hath loved us"? Is each one of us careful for the
reputation of others? Are we ever mindful to love our neighbor as ourselves? If
differences threaten to disrupt the Christian harmony between the members, is
prompt action taken?
3rd Query. Are our homes places of peace, joy, and
contentment? Are they an influence for good in the neighborhood, community, and
country? Do we set a good Christian example for our children to follow? Are
Friends careful that their children realize that our loving Savior will
faithfully guide them through life, as they are willing to accept and obey Him?
Do we help our children to read and appreciate the Bible?
4th Query. Believing our bodies to be the temple of God, are
we concerned to attain a high level of physical and mental health? To this end
are our lives examples of temperance in all things? Do we avoid and discourage
the use and handling of intoxicants, tobacco, and improper use of drugs?
5th Query. Are we sensitive to the needs of those around us
who may be in less fortunate circumstances? Do we prayerfully consider how we
can share one another's burdens when the need arises? Do we counsel lovingly
and prayerfully with those members whose actions in any phase of life give us
grounds for concern?
6th Query. Do we live in the life and power which takes away
the occasion of all wars? Do we, on Christian principles, refuse to participate
in or to cooperate with the military effort? Do we work actively for peace and
the removal of the causes of war? Do we endeavor to cultivate good will, mutual
understanding, and equal opportunities for all people?
7th Query. Do we observe simplicity in our manner of living,
sincerity in speech, and modesty in apparel? Do we guard against involving
ourselves in temporal affairs to the hindrance of spiritual growth? Are we just
in our dealings and careful to fulfill our promises? Do we seek to make our
Christian faith a part of our daily work?
8th Query. When asked to swear to, to affirm, or to declare
under penalties of perjury, the truthfulness of our statements, are we careful
to witness to Christ's command that we swear not at all, but be honest in all
things? Do we avoid gambling and speculation based on the principles of chance?
9th Query. Are we sensitive to the problems of family
living? Do we offer counseling to couples both before and after marriage? How
are we helping individuals, married couples and family units to strengthen and
enrich their lives?
Advices
We believe the custom of regularly reading
aloud well chosen advices has been of value to our members in stimulating their
spiritual life.
It is directed that each of the following
Advices be read in our meetings, at least once in the year, according to a
regular plan, and that the time for reading them be chosen to benefit as many
of the members as possible.
A suggested plan follows: Arrange for
someone to read aloud one portion weekly at the close of First-day Meeting for
Worship, followed by some minutes of silence in which to consider it. This
would allow for the reading of each advice twice in the year.
1. Use vigilant care, dear Friends, not to overlook those
promptings of love and truth which you may feel in your hearts; for these are
the tender leadings of the Spirit of God. Nor should any of us resist God's
workings within us, for it is His redemptive love which strives to show us our
darkness, and to lead us to true repentance, and to His marvelous light.
"Behold, I stand at the door and knock: if any man hear my voice and open the
door, I will come in to him, and will sup with him, and he with me" (Rev.
3:20).
2. Be faithful in maintaining your testimony against all war
as inconsistent with the Spirit and teaching of Christ. Live in the Life and
Power that takes away the occasions of all wars and strife. Seek to take your
part in the ministry of reconciliation between individuals, groups, and
nations. Let the law of kindness know no limits. Show a loving consideration
for all people.
3. Regard the taking of oaths as contrary to the teachings
of Christ, and setting up a double standard of truthfulness; whereas sincerity
and truth should be practiced in all walks of life.
4. In your meetings for worship be earnestly concerned to
enter reverently into communion with God. Come with minds and hearts prepared.
Yield yourselves up to the influence of the Divine Presence so that you may
find the evil in you weakening and the good raised up. God calls each one to
the service of the meeting. Be obedient and faithful, whether by word or silent
prayerful waiting; and be ready to receive the message of others in a tender
spirit.
5. Be on your guard, dear Friends, lest the love of pleasure
take too strong a hold upon you. Choose such recreations as are pure and
healthful. Let them be in harmony with your service to God and man; and in that
service be ready at any time to lay them aside when called upon.
6. Endeavor to make your home an abiding place of joy and
peace where the Presence of God is known and felt. Seek to know an inward
retirement, even amid the activities of daily life. Make a quiet place in your
daily life, wherein you may learn the full meaning of prayer, and the gladness
of communion with your Heavenly Father.
7. Avoid and discourage any kind of betting or gambling, as
well as commercial speculation of a gambling character. Remember how widespread
are the temptations to grow rich at the expense of others, and how apparently
harmless indulgence leads often by degrees to ruin and crime.
8. Watch with Christian tenderness over the opening minds of
your children. Help them to understand the teachings of Jesus. Seek to awaken
in them the love of Christ, and through example and training in self-control,
to bring them to obedience to the law of God in their own hearts, that they may
be joyful and willing in his service.
9. In consideration of marriage, remember that happiness
depends on a deep and understanding love. Seek to be joined in a common
discipleship of Jesus Christ. Ask guidance of God, desiring above all temporal
considerations, that your union may be owned and blest of Him. Consider the
precious responsibilities of parenthood, and do not forget the help you may
draw from the loving counsel of your own parents.
10. Carefully maintain truthfulness and sincerity in your
conduct, and encourage the same in your families. In your style of living, in
your dress, and in the furniture of your houses, choose what is simple, useful,
and good.
11. In view of the evils arising from the use of tobacco and
intoxicating drinks, we urge all to abstain from using them, from offering them
to others, and from having any part in their production, manufacture, or sale.
Do not let the claims of "good fellowship" or the fear of seeming peculiar
prevent you from standing by principles which you have conscientiously
adopted.
12. Members are affectionately reminded of the importance of
keeping correct and clear accounts pertaining to all outward affairs. It is
important to make wills, or revisions of them, while still in health of mind
and body, and free from any feeling of resentment. Delay, or neglect to secure
competent legal advice, may cause some unexpected hindrance in the proper
execution of one's bequests.
13. Make it your aim to promote the cause of truth and
righteousness, and to spread the Kingdom of God at home and abroad. Be ready to
take your part fearlessly in declaring His message and in witnessing to His
power.
14. Live in love, as Christian brethren, ready to be helpful
one to another. Rejoice together in the blessings of life; sympathize with each
other in its trials. Know one another as fellow-workers in the things that
endure. Watch over one another for good, praying that each may be a living
member of the Church of Christ, and may grow in the knowledge of the love of
God.
15. Remember the special opportunities for refreshment of
spirit and for service which the first day of the week affords; use them
faithfully, as befits the Friends of the Master.
16. Be diligent in the reading of the Bible and other
spiritually helpful writings. Gather daily in your families for worship. Such
times have a special value in bringing little children especially into the
experience of united worship, and so preparing them for the larger meeting for
worship, as they learn in the silence to bow to the power of God.
17. Be mindful for yourselves and for your children that you
value the beauty and power of good friendships. Also, by example and precept,
encourage your children to appreciate the best in literature and the arts,
which is consistent with our Christian faith. By this, all your lives may be
enriched and the youth with tastes thus early formed may henceforth
instinctively choose the beautiful and good.
18. Seek for your children that full development of God's
gifts which true education can bring about. Remember that the service to which
we are called needs healthy bodies, trained minds, high ideals, and an
understanding of the laws and purposes of God. Give of your best to the study
of the Bible, and the understanding of the Christian faith. Be open-minded,
ready constantly to receive new light.
19. Be zealous that education shall be continued throughout
life. Willingness to be used in mind as well as in body, and to be equipped in
both, is a needful part of Christian character. Our service to God is
incomplete without the contribution of the intellect.
20. Follow steadfastly after all that is pure and lovely and
of good report. Be prayerful. Be watchful. Be humble. Let no failure discourage
you. When temptation comes, make it an opportunity to gain new strength by
standing fast, that you may enter into that life of gladness and victory to
which all are called.
21. A punctual attendance at the hour appointed for Meeting
for Worship is a matter of no small importance. If we hurry from outward
occupation, we are in danger of two things: our thoughts may still be with that
in which we have been engaged, and our late arrival may interrupt that holy
silence which should prevail; however, let us welcome with open hearts all who
join us no matter when they arrive.
22. We would urge Friends, when away from home, to attend a
Meeting for Worship if such is within reach. Such attendance may well
strengthen the meeting, and may bring Friends who were hitherto strangers into
fellowship with one another.
23. Those who visit our meetings for worship should be given
a friendly welcome and be encouraged to continue to join us in worship.
Particular assistance and loving attention should be accorded new members.
24. When we gather together in worship, let us remember that
there is committed to us, as disciples of Christ, a share in the priesthood. We
should help one another, whether in silence, or through spoken word, or prayer.
Let none of us assume that vocal ministry is never to be our part. If the call
comes, there should be no quenching of the Spirit. The sense of our own
unworthiness must not exempt us from this service, nor must the fear of being
unable to find the right words, "for it shall be given you in that same hour
what ye shall speak" (Matt. 10:19).
25. We should recognize the importance of finding occasion
for some united worship during the week, either at the meetinghouse, or in a
private home. Such may be of great assistance, not only to the individual, but
also to the life of the whole group.
26. Let your whole conduct and conversation be worthy of
disciples of Christ. "Be ye steadfast, unmovable, always abounding in the work
of the Lord, forasmuch as ye know that your labor is not in vain in the Lord"
(1 Cor. 15:58).
27. Remember that our spiritual life will not be complete
unless we have experienced an inward baptism and transformation. Growth in
inward purity and outward Christian effectiveness should follow this
experience; but such growth can come only if we persist in seeking to know and
follow the commands of Christ.
28. In their senior years, and before debilitating
infirmities prevail, Friends are affectionately admonished prayerfully to seek
Divine Guidance and counsel from their families and friends regarding plans to
continue to live in their own homes, enter a retirement home, or to make other
living arrangements appropriate for their financial capabilities in their last
years.
Ministry and
Oversight
Overseers
The Friends Meeting being a community of
believers, its members are responsible for one another in both their human and
spiritual needs. The pastoral care of the members in their personal and
temporal lives is the responsibility of the Overseers; the oversight of the
spiritual life of the meeting and particularly, the meeting for worship, is
chiefly the concern of the Meeting for Ministry and Oversight.
Appointment
and Renewal
Monthly Meetings are advised to appoint,
on nomination by a committee, at least two Friends of each sex from each
preparative or particular meeting, to serve as Overseers.
Since the duties of Overseers may be
various, and always vital to the life of the Meetings they serve, the Monthly
Meeting should be careful to select Friends of different ages, gifts, and
experience, if possible, and all of these should be active and well concerned
members, imbued with a deep sense of responsibility toward the vitality and
well-being of the Society.
It is recommended that at least once in
three years these appointments should be reviewed by a committee appointed to
consider the propriety of changing the Overseers. Other Friends, equally
concerned for the well-being of the membership and the meeting, may be
appointed, to the improvement of their gifts. By this means, opportunity also
will be afforded for a relief from labors for those who have faithfully
fulfilled their turn of stewardship.
Duties of
Overseers
Overseers take responsibility for the
Meeting's care over the welfare of Friends. They must, when needful, attempt to
adjust complaints, or any estrangements from harmony, which might impair the
happy participation of individuals in the worship or the business of their
meetings.
Overseers should take time and effort to
become closely acquainted with all Friends. In proportion as they succeed in
this, so will individuals the more readily come to them for confidential
counsel. Any personal advice should be given privately in a spirit of meekness
and love, with the intention to counsel patiently without offense to
feelings.
Complaints from nonmembers shall be
listened to, and as much care extended in their case as for members with us.
Only thus may our belief be evinced in the equal and impartial adminis- tration
of justice, without respect of persons.
On behalf of the Monthly Meeting, the
Overseers shall make routine inquiry into all applications for and resignations
from the membership. They shall also make an annual review of the membership
status of all associate members. They shall be responsible for preparing
answers to the Administrative Queries for the consideration of the Monthly
Meeting.
The Overseers should at all times be
sensitive to the desires of the Monthly Meeting.
While the Yearly Meeting and our Monthly
Meetings place special responsibility upon the Overseers, this is not intended
to relieve other members from the duty and privilege of shepherding the flock.
Rather it should be felt of mutual advantage to all, that the Overseers give
encouragement and prompting, as leaders in this respect, acknowledging that
other members may be even more gifted than they for certain offices. This may
be particularly true concerning the community beyond the meeting itself.
Meetings of the Overseers
The Overseers appointed in each Monthly
Meeting should meet together regularly for their mutual encouragement, and to
counsel together on how best to carry out their work in a spirit of love and
consecration.
They should be prepared as a group to
keep the peace, appease want, discourage talebearing; also to consider the
Chris- tian influence of their own daily lives and to be concerned for the
influences likely to arise from the social life of their fellow members. They
should have a sense of the community beyond the meeting itself, of how the
meeting relates to the community, and what it is doing for it. Any person so
desiring, whether a member with us or not, may bring business before the
Overseers, by prior arrangement with one of them.
Special
Counsel for the Consideration of Overseers
The Yearly Meeting feels that proper
oversight not only is essential in our meetings, but that the office of
Overseer, when rightly fulfilled, can be of great value to the individual. The
service is one bringing its own rich rewards, for it cannot properly be
undertaken in one's own strength.
We would encourage those who are
appointed to these positions of trust and influence to cherish an interest in
and show an affectionate sympathy with our younger members, attempting to find
good leadership for them, and suggesting ways in which they can be of service
to the meeting.
Overseers should endeavor early to become
personally known to all who attend the meetings, visiting in their homes and
showing an affectionate interest in them.
Elders and
Eldership
Function and
Qualifications
In every meeting for worship there is a
vital and a continuing need for a nucleus of Friends who feel exceptional
concern for the deeper spiritual life of the meeting. They will also feel a
concern for the encouragement and guidance of the vocal ministry.
These, however, are but the primary
qualifications to be looked for in Elders. Ideally, they need, in addition, a
considerable insight into character, an alert spiritual discernment,
exceptionally good judgment, and a fund of ready tact and open friendliness.
All these qualifications should be humbly dedicated to a deeply felt zeal for
the spiritual growth of the Society, and upheld and purified by the power of
constant watchful prayer.
Elders should feel a particular duty to
give encouragement and oversight to those who appear in the vocal ministry or
public prayer.
Appointment and Renewal of Elders
Wherever possible, the Monthly Meeting
shall appoint at least two Friends of each sex, preferably not Overseers, to
serve as Elders in each particular Meeting. It shall name a committee of
judicious and experienced Friends to consider carefully the persons best suited
for such special service. When the committee agrees upon nominations it shall
present the names to the Monthly Meeting, which in turn shall consider them
separately and weightily. The nominations shall not be accepted or rejected in
the same session in which they are presented. The following month, if the
persons named are acceptable, the Monthly Meeting shall appoint them Elders,
and so inform the Meeting for Ministry and Oversight.
The Preparative Meeting of Ministry and
Oversight or the Quarterly Meeting of Ministry and Oversight may also nominate
elders to the Monthly Meeting at any time they feel so led. It should be
recognized by all that true eldership is a Divine gift and function, which may
occur whether an individual is an official elder or not.
The appointments shall be for terms not
longer than six years, and alternated in such a way that half the number shall
be eligible for renewal or change every third year or sooner, at the discretion
of the Monthly Meeting.
The office of Elder being vested in his
own Monthly Meeting for business cannot be conveyed with him to another Monthly
Meeting. An Elder who loses fitness for his office should promptly have such
care by the Preparative and Quarterly Meetings for Ministry and Oversight as
may be needed, before the matter be referred by minute to the Monthly
Meeting.
The
Ministry of the Gospel
As the inward experience of communion with
God is central to our life and worship, so are spoken testimonies of invaluable
service to the meeting. Such sharing is but the beginning of our duty to the
whole of society. This is a distinctive, yet not exclusive, service of Gospel
Ministry. As Friends, we are persuaded that true Gospel Ministry comes not of
man, but through him by direct revelation from Jesus Christ by the prompting
and guidance of the Holy Spirit. None the less, some meetings, entirely silent,
give ample evidence of deep spiritual life.
The essential qualification for the
ministry is the direct preparation by God himself in those individuals who are
called to the service. As the gift is Divine, so the service should be freely
and faithfully discharged without any view of reward from man. The express
command of Christ, our head and high priest, was "Freely ye have received,
freely give."
One evidence that such messages are truly
God-given is found in the peace experienced by those who deliver them, which
seems to come as a rewarding sense of reassurance for humbly obeying an
apparent "call." We think we see further proof of Divine leading in the fact
that the briefest heartfelt expression, voiced by the least experienced
speaker, quite often is an inspiration to all who hear it.
From the beginning of our Society, Friends
have held that men and women are equally qualified for vocal ministry, whether
in our meetings or elsewhere. Friends also believe that every member should
feel some responsibility for the quality of the meeting for worship, and that
if all are but faithful and attentive to Divine leadings vocal messages may
come through any worshipper.
Vocal expression needs watchful,
sustained, and tender care under experienced guidance. Friends are thus advised
to help each other to this end. This care is the distinctive service of the
Eldership.
Acknowledged
Ministers
Recognition and Recording
When a member of the Society has
frequently and serviceably spoken to the spiritual needs of himself and his
fellow- worshippers, Friends should encourage him in this invaluable form of
service. If his gift for ministry continues to grow, the Preparative Meeting
for Ministry and Oversight should take particular notice thereof. If that
Meeting, after careful and prayerful consideration of the matter, feels that a
true gift for ministry has been bestowed, it should inform the Quarterly
Meeting for Ministry and Oversight. If that body approves, it should encourage
the Preparative Meeting for Ministry and Oversight to present the matter to the
Monthly Meeting for its consideration.
If after due and proper consideration, the
Monthly Meeting likewise feels convinced that such a member ought to be
recorded as an acknowledged minister of the gospel, he may be so recorded by
the clerk.
Procedures for Travel on Religious
Concerns
When a Minister or other concerned Friend
feels called to religious service beyond his own Monthly Meeting, or to visit
in Gospel love the families therein, he should first lay the matter before his
Monthly Meeting, stating so far as he can foresee, the whole nature of the
proposed service. If the Monthly Meeting feels free to unite with the concern,
it shall make a minute to that effect, and furnish the minister with a copy
thereof.
When the service is directed outside the
minister's own Quarterly Meeting, the Quarterly Meeting should be informed of
the concern. If this meeting approves, it should endorse the Monthly Meeting's
minute, or issue a minute signed by its own clerks, thereby indicating its
approval.
In the performance of such visits, in all
cases where a minister travels in Gospel service, it is recommended that an
Elder or other suitable Friend should, if possible, accompany him. This person
may also be furnished with a minute of approval by his own Monthly Meeting. All
such minutes should bear the signatures of the clerks of said meetings.
If it should appear that the holding of
any appointed meetings might be interfered with by awaiting the sanction of the
Quarterly Meeting, liberty for such appointment may be granted under the united
sense of the Elders and Overseers of the Monthly Meeting and/or those of the
meetings where the visit is being made.
The Yearly Meeting earnestly desires
that, in laying a concern before his Monthly Meeting, a minister shall take the
greatest care to avoid any misunderstanding as to the nature and scope of his
concern.
After the accomplishment of such
services, the meetings which have granted minutes or certificates should be
promptly notified and their documents returned to them without delay. Friends,
returning minutes, are encouraged to report on their visits as fully as they
feel easy to do, for the information and encouragement of the meetings which
have supported them in their concerns.
Any meeting which grants minutes for
travel should take care that the service is not hindered for lack of sufficient
funds. The meeting issuing a minute shall appoint a committee to render any
needed assistance to Friends during the religious service. These
recommendations are not intended to restrict friendly visitations, nor to
hamper Ministers, Elders, or other well concerned Friends, but to enable
meetings to participate in, and foster, all calls to religious service in
Gospel love.
A minute of introduction and greeting may
be granted to a member who anticipates visiting other Friends during travel.
Granting such a minute should be handled in manner similar to that of a
travelling minute.
The
Meeting for Ministry and Oversight
The chief responsibility of the Meeting
for Ministry and Oversight is to foster the spiritual life of the Meeting. The
members should seek together for sensitivity and discernment that will enable
them to encourage or caution as needed those who appear in vocal ministry and
to draw forth those who may be neglecting their gifts.
The members of this group should always
be open to new leadings and willing to take action in any new direction which
may stimulate the spiritual life and development of our members.
They should also feel a deep concern to
promote the reading of literature both ancient and modern which will strengthen
and deepen the spiritual life. The Yearly Meeting feels an especial concern
that our young members may find real Truth in science, in religion, and in
every department of life.
The Meeting for Ministry and Oversight is
composed of the recorded Ministers, the Elders, and the Overseers. They are
grouped into Preparative, Quarterly, and Yearly Meeting bodies on the basis of
the territories from which they come and which they are to serve.
The Ministers, Elders, and Overseers of
each Monthly Meeting will meet together in a Preparative Meeting for Ministry
and Oversight. It is required that they meet at least once in three months and
oftener as the opportunity to serve may appear. Each of these Meetings shall
appoint one of its members to serve as Clerk.
Members of Ministry and Oversight should
have the care of any appointed meetings in their Monthly Meeting area and
should be responsible for the proper and regular reading aloud of the
Advices.
A Meeting for Ministry and Oversight
shall not interfere with the affairs of any meeting for business, but it may
present any subject which it feels should be considered therein.
The Queries and Advices addressed to this
body are to be regularly read and considered.
Representatives from the Preparative
Meeting should be appointed to attend the Quarterly Meeting, and also members
should be named as Yearly Meeting representatives from the Quarterly
Meeting.
Queries
for the Meetings for Ministry and Oversight
The following four Queries are recommended
to be read aloud in each of the Preparative Meetings. They are to be soberly
considered, and suitable answers prepared to be sent to the Quarterly Meeting.
The clerk of the Quarterly Meeting is to prepare summaries of these answers for
its records, and the summaries prepared in the Quarterly Meeting for Ministry
and Oversight just preceding the Yearly Meeting shall be forwarded to the
Yearly Meeting for Ministry and Oversight.
1. Are members of this meeting diligent in the attendance of
all meetings? Is there evidence of growth in spiritual life in our meetings for
worship?
2. Is the ministry of our meeting such as to promote the
spiritual growth of our membership, building it up in the faith that is in
Jesus Christ? Are we personally taking due care to see that the basic
principles of Friends' worship are kept clearly before our members?
3. Do we endeavor to practice and promote Christ's way of
life? Are we good examples in uprightness, simplicity and moderation in our
daily lives? Do we each have an individual concern for the spread of the Gospel
among all people? Do we make an effort to encourage and stimulate a sense of
religious responsibility among the members of our meetings?
4. Are we sufficiently thoughtful for the spiritual
awakening of the youth in our meetings? Do we concern ourselves in helping them
develop and consecrate their various talents, and do we make an effort to
provide opportunity for the Christian exercise of their gifts in the meeting
and the community?
Advices for the Meetings for Ministry and
Oversight
It is also desired that the following
Advices be read and pondered in each of our Meetings for Ministry and Oversight
at least once during the year. While the purpose of each Advice is primarily
intended as a personal and private reminder for each individual, occasionally a
way may open for some helpful comments in a spirit of brotherly love.
1. Let all ministers abide in a simple and patient
submission to the will of God for that Divine ability by which alone they may
faithfully and effectively preach the Word. Remember that all acceptable
worship and all Gospel ministry is performed under the immediate teaching and
influence of the Holy Spirit.
2. Let all, in their spoken testimonies, be cautious of
using unnecessary preambles, and of asserting too positively a Divine
impulse--the baptizing power of Truth accompanying their words being the true
evidence.
3. Let all read the Holy Scriptures frequently, and be
careful to seek for Divine guidance in interpreting their meaning.
4. Since all Friends are bound to feel weightily concerned
over many controversial issues of the day, our Ministers are reminded to be
careful how they enter upon such disputed points when giving testimony. Let us
remember that "True courage dwelleth closer to gentleness than to
denunciation," and that judgment belongs to the Lord. Let there be constant
self- restraint from any tendency, either to give cause for or to be drawn into
disputation of any kind during our meetings for worship.
5. Let all be cautious of interrupting the solemnity of the
meeting by too frequent speaking or by unnecessary additions toward the
conclusion of their addresses.
6. Lastly, dear Friends, let all dwell in that Spirit which
alone can give ability to those who labor in the Church of Christ.
MARRIAGE
We earnestly advise and exhort Friends to
wait upon the Lord for counsel and guidance before starting any procedure for
marriage. The union of a man and woman is not to be undertaken lightly.
Friends regard marriage as a continuing
religious sacrament, not merely a civil contract. We believe that marriage is
an ordinance of God, appointed for the help and blessing of both partners and
for the right upbringing of the next generation. Divorce and broken homes are a
blight to our country, and great care needs to be exercised that the union be
on the right foundation. Even when the marriage relationship fails to achieve
its highest possibilities and unhappiness develops, we believe that by patient
and prayerful determination these obstacles may be overcome. Overseers should
be aware of sources of outside counseling that are available, have the
meeting's permission to recommend the use of Christian counselors, and be
sensitive to the time to make these recommendations to married couples who may
need help.
A well-founded marriage is a source of
strength, security, and joy, not only to the couple and their family, but to
the community and to all whom their lives touch.
True happiness and joy in marriage
depends first on the presence of devoted love, a love which is not the outcome
merely of a passing attraction, but which includes a real respect for the
personality of the other.
Every such union should be undertaken in
the fear of the Lord and with a reverent attention to His counsel and guidance.
It will be owned and blessed by Him if the love that draws two souls together
is sanctified by the larger love of Christ. Of utmost importance is a common
faith in God, and a mutual desire to open heart and home to the spirit of
Christ.
The Friends' marriage ceremony reflects
our belief that the marriage contract is made by the couple themselves,
completed and blessed by God. The simple Friendly wedding where the two
concerned say their vows within the framework of a meeting for worship, without
the help of a third person, is the natural expression of a way of life in which
we believe. In the presence of God and with the support and prayers of their
friends, they take each other as life partners, asking His blessing on their
union and dedicating their new life to His service.
Marriage Procedure
In order to do all that it can to assure
the stability and happiness of couples who are married under its care, the
Yearly Meeting outlines the following procedure preliminary to the wedding.
The couple presents a letter, signed by
both of them, to the Monthly Meeting under whose care they wish to be married,
stating that they intend marriage with each other.
This letter is minuted by the Clerk, and
a "clearness committee" is appointed. It is customary for the bride's meeting
to have charge of the wedding. In this case, the committee on clearness, which
this meeting appoints, will be for her.
The groom writes to his own meeting,
asking for a statement of his membership to be forwarded to the bride's
meeting. Before preparing the statement, his meeting appoints a committee on
clearness.
The original purpose of these committees,
from which their name is derived, was to ascertain whether the applicants were
free of conflicting marriage engagements. Today, in addition to this
requirement, such committees should be concerned to do what they can to help
the couple achieve a stable and happy marriage. They should endeavor to give
any assistance or counsel which the couple may need. Acceptance of Christian
counsel should be a prerequisite for marriage under the care of the meeting. It
is recommended that a small collection of books and pamphlets on marriage be
made available and kept up to date for the use of couples contemplating
marriage.
The month following their initial letter
of intention, the couple presents a second letter to the meeting, stating that
they continue their intentions of marriage, and suggesting a time for the
wedding. At this time the bride's committee on clearness should report, and the
groom's statement from his meeting should be presented, also consent of
parents. A Monthly Meeting may permit a marriage to take place without parents'
consent if it feels that their objection is unreasonable.
If everything is in order, the Monthly
Meeting selects a committee to have oversight of the wedding and appoints the
meeting in which the marriage is to take place, preferably on a weekday. This
committee should meet with the couple to discuss plans for the wedding and
reception, which should be carried out with dignity, reverence, and
simplicity.
The Oversight Committee, in conjunction
with the Monthly Meeting Clerk, also has the responsibility of informing itself
as to the legal requirements for marriage, and of seeing to it that the couple
is aware of them and that they are carried out in adequate time. (See Note
under "Additional Counsel," p. 40)
After the wedding, the Oversight Committee
has the marriage certificate recorded by the Monthly Meeting Recorder, sees
that the legal report is sent to the county, and reports to the Monthly Meeting
on carrying out its duties.
If either the bride or groom has children
by a previous mar- riage, the Committee should see that their legal rights are
secured.
If the bride and groom are members of the
same meeting, the procedure is, of course, somewhat simplified. If one is not a
member of Friends, the marriage may be under the care of the meeting to which
the member belongs, in which case this meeting should appoint committees on
clearness both for the member and the nonmember. If for good reason the couple
wish to be married in the groom's meeting, or in a meeting to which neither
belongs, the committee on clearness should always be appointed by the bride's
and groom's own home meetings, which then forward their certificates to the
clerk of the meeting which is to have charge of the wedding, and which appoints
the Oversight Committee.
The marriage itself, as stated before,
takes place in a meeting for worship, in which the bride and groom rise,
usually toward the close of the meeting, take each other by the hand, and
repeat the following promise, the groom first: "In the presence of the Lord,
and before these our Friends, I take thee, _______ to be my wife (husband),
promising, with Divine assistance, to be unto thee a loving and faithful
husband (wife) so long as we both shall live" (or words to that effect).
The marriage certificate is then signed,
by the groom first, then by the bride with her married name, and is read aloud
by a person selected beforehand. At the close of the meeting all persons
present are invited to sign the certificate as witnesses.
The form of the certificate in essence is
as follows:
Whereas, A. B. of ____________, in the
County of ____________, in __________, son of C. B., of _____________, and H.,
his wife; and D. E., daughter of F. E., of _____________, and N., his wife,
having declared their intentions of marriage with each other to ____________
Monthly Meeting of the Religious Society of Friends held at ____________,
according to the good order used among them, and having the consent of parents
(or guardians), their proposed marriage was allowed by that meeting. These are
to certify to whom it may concern, that for the accomplishment of their
intention, this ___________ day of the __________ Month, in the year of our
Lord __________, they, A. B. and D. E., appearing in a Public Meeting for
worship of the Religious Society of Friends, held at __________, and A. B.,
taking D. E. by the hand, did on this solemn occasion declare that he took her,
D. E., to be his wife, promising, with Divine assistance, to be unto her a
loving and faithful husband so long as they both shall live (or words to that
effect). And then in the same assembly, D. E. did in like manner declare that
she took him, A. B., to be her husband, promising with Divine assistance, to be
unto him a loving and faithful wife so long as they both shall live (or words
to that effect). And moreover, they, A. B. and D. E., she according to the
custom of marriage adopting the surname of her husband, did, as a further
confirmation thereof, then and there to these presents, set their hands. A. B.
D. B. And we, having been present at the marriage, have as wit- nesses set our
hands the day and year above written. Signed:
_________________________________________________________________
_________________________________________________________________
Marriage
Outside the Care of the Meeting
If a member is married outside the care of
the meeting, the Overseers should either visit or correspond with the newly
married couple, expressing the interest of the meeting in their new life. It is
our desire and hope that the member will continue his relationship with the
Society and that the nonmember should be made welcome and invited to attend
meeting.
Additional Counsel
We feel it wise that a member should not
remarry sooner than a year after the death of a former husband or wife. An
interval of time is necessary for a person to readjust his life and to seek
guidance for its direction.
It is also the judgment of the Yearly
Meeting that, as our state laws provide, marriages between first cousins, or
the children of half-brothers and half-sisters, should not be permitted.
Since all prior wills are automatically
and profoundly affected by marriage and/or parenthood, we have thought it well
to call attention here to some important advice on wills, given at the end of
this book.
Note: Committees of oversight of marriages
are urged to contact local (county) officials well ahead of the time of the
wedding in order to assure that both the county officials and the Friends
involved are familiar with the relevant statutes and are prepared to work
within them. Friends should be aware that allowance is made in the statutes of
some states, including Ohio, for marriages under the care of Friends without
the officiation of a person legally registered to perform marriages.
MEMBERS
IN NEED
It is the desire of the Yearly Meeting
that cases of our members in financial need may be tactfully inspected by local
meetings. They should extend care as seems prudent, such as finding suitable
employment, or where work is not available, defraying living expenses and
providing for the education of the children. Friends are urged to be
compassionate and charitable in providing funds for these purposes but to guard
against exposing names and conditions of fellow members.
FUNERALS AND
BURIAL GROUNDS
Two or more suitable Friends of each
particular meeting should be appointed by Monthly Meetings to extend their
sympathy in case of death, to offer assistance in regard to funeral or memorial
arrangements and to be in attendance at services.
Friends are urged to conform to true
simplicity in all funeral arrangements, avoiding elaborate and expensive
caskets, and floral decorations. The simplicity of a meeting for worship is
desired in the conduct of funerals. They should be occasions when things
temporal are secondary, when the reality of life immortal is deeply felt, and
when the presence of our Lord brings hope, comfort, and consolation to the
bereaved.
The Funeral Committee, or a special
graveyard committee, is to have care of the burial grounds belonging to the
meeting. They will see that the graveyard is kept in good order and the records
of interment accurately kept. They shall see that the exact place of each
interment is accurately marked upon an interment chart or plan, one copy of
which, at least, is kept safeguarded from loss by fire or other causes, in a
suitable vault, under the care of the custodian of records. A duplicate copy is
to be used for the convenience of such committee, but also safeguarded from
fire or other hazard.
Graves should be marked by plain low
stones, giving only the name of the deceased and appropriate dates.
Nonmembers may not be interred in Friends'
grounds without the consent of the funeral or graveyard committee.
MEMORIALS
"Lives of great
men all remind us,
We can make
our lives sublime,
And
departing, leave behind us,
Footprints
on the sands of time."
Thus wrote the poet Longfellow, and we believe that suitable
accounts of our members who have lived exemplary spiritual lives may be an
inspiration to those who follow after. If, therefore, any Meeting should feel
that it would be profitable to prepare a memorial concerning a deceased member,
such memorial is to be sent to the Representative Meeting for approval and
referral to the Memorial Committee, then returned to the Representative Meeting
for final approval and printing instructions.
MEETING
HOUSES AND GROUNDS: TRUSTEESHIP
Meetings should make due examinations as
to the titles of all meeting houses, burial grounds, and other estates which
have been vested in Trustees, and held by them for the use and benefit of the
Society at large or any of the Meetings. Whenever it appears needful, the
Meeting shall promptly appoint new members to such Trusteeships. It is further
directed that Meetings shall keep exact records of all business transactions,
all trusts and conveyances, and indicate where all their minutes, papers, and
records have been deposited. Both Meetings and individuals are encouraged to
utilize the services of the Fiduciary Trustees of the Yearly Meeting (see page
43).
If a Preparative Meeting ceases to exist,
all its property shall be transferred and conveyed to its Monthly Meeting. If a
Monthly Meeting ceases to exist, without merging or consolidating with another
Monthly Meeting, all its property shall be transferred and conveyed to its
Quarterly Meeting. If a Quarterly Meeting ceases to exist, without merging or
consolidating with another Quarterly Meeting, all its property shall be
transferred to the Yearly Meeting. If two Monthly Meetings or if two Quarterly
Meetings merge or consolidate, all the property of both shall be held by the
merged Meeting. Such transfer and conveyance shall be authorized by an
appropriate minute, duly recorded, and the assignment transfer and deed of
conveyance shall be executed and delivered by such Meetings before they are
formally laid down or disbanded, or in the case of merged or consolidated
Meetings, at the time of merger. In the event that such action is not taken by
the Meetings before they are laid down, merged, or consolidated, the Monthly
Meeting, the Quarterly Meeting, or the Yearly Meeting entitled to receive any
such property shall become the equitable owner and shall be entitled forthwith
to require the assignment or conveyance of the legal title, to be held by such
Monthly, Quarterly, or Yearly Meeting under and upon the same trusts as the
property has been theretofore held, if it is practicable that such trusts be
carried out; otherwise, upon trusts similar thereto as the successor Meeting
may determine.
No Meeting property shall be distributed
or partitioned among the individual members of a Meeting.
FIDUCIARY
TRUSTEES
The Fiduciary Trustees of Ohio Yearly
Meeting of Friends, Barnesville, Ohio, is "a corporation not for profit." It
developed to its present legal form and standing from a suggestion of the
Meeting for Sufferings (now the Representative Meeting) in 1924. The duties and
functions of this body are: To receive and hold all titles to property and all
trust funds, securities, bequests, legacies, gifts, or endowments that are in
the nature of permanent funds, now held by the Yearly Meeting or any of its
committees or which in the future may come to them; to invest, care for and
collect the income therefrom, and disburse the same as required by the wills of
the donors or the direction of the Yearly Meeting, and report annually to the
Yearly Meeting.
In case of sale of any tract of land
belonging to the Yearly Meeting, the Fiduciary Trustees are legally qualified
upon instruction from either the Yearly Meeting or the Representative Meeting
to give a marketable title to any such tract without having to secure an order
from the Court of Common Pleas.
Constituent Meetings of the Yearly Meeting
are at liberty to place titles to properties in the hands of Fiduciary
Trustees. They may also invest their trust funds with these Trustees.
CAPITAL
PUNISHMENT
Our opposition to capital punishment is
based on the command of Christ to love and not to kill, and on the belief that
there is that of God in every man. We believe in the value of every human life,
and that even the most unfortunate sinner may be reclaimed and brought to a
saving knowledge of Jesus Christ.
We feel that a considerate and Christian
treatment of all offenders is always possible. We urge Friends to work for the
complete abolition of the death penalty.
EDUCATION
The very important subject of education of
our youth in piety and virtue, as well as in intellectual pursuits, has engaged
the attention of the Yearly Meeting throughout its history. Friends believe in
the sacramental quality of the whole of life. All life should be an education;
all education should have religious significance. The deepest aim of Quaker
education should be to cultivate an attentive ear and a habit of quick response
to the Divine leading within each individual.
We are concerned to encourage the schools
which our children attend to maintain a high standard of moral character and
Christian principles as well as academic excellence.
Schools under the care of the Yearly
Meeting have an opportunity to include in their curricula some instruction in
Quaker beliefs and principles, as well as to create a wholesome and Christian
atmosphere in which our youth may grow. Teachers should be employed who are
concerned not only to follow Christian ideals, but who can also instill in the
pupils a desire to be guided by the Light of Christ in all phases of life.
Many of our Meetings will want to foster
First-day Schools with teachers and leaders who serve voluntarily. The basic
aim of these classes is to give each individual spiritual nourishment, and to
lead him in a growing knowledge of the Bible. Although we must be watchful to
provide religious training in our homes, schools and First-day Schools, we must
ever keep in mind that attendance at Meetings where Friends come close to God
and to each other is an essential part of religious training.
Conditions all over the world are changing
constantly and create problems which need our prayerful consideration.
Conferences, forums, and discussion groups are sometimes helpful in appraising
these problems. It is important that we understand them in their relation to
the will of God for us.
OATHS
Our testimony against the use of oaths is
founded upon the following positive command of Jesus: "But I say unto you,
Swear not at all; neither by heaven; for it is God's throne: nor by the earth;
for it is His footstool: neither by Jerusalem; for it is the city of the great
King. Neither shalt thou swear by thy head, because thou canst not make one
hair white or black. But let your communication be, Yea, yea; Nay, nay: for
whatsoever is more than these cometh of evil" (Matt. 5:34-37).
We regard the taking of oaths as contrary
to the teachings of Christ, and as setting up a double standard of
truthfulness, whereas sincerity and truth should be practiced in every phase of
life.
Friends' opposition to judicial oaths is
not merely a negation; it is a positive affirmation of an ideal of sincerity
for the regulation of life. For an honest person to "swear" or to declare
"under penalties of perjury" (which means as if one had sworn) adds nothing to
the credibility of his/her statement, but puts him/her under judgment for
disobedience to Christ's command not to swear. For a dishonest person to
"swear" or to declare "under penalties of perjury" offers no assurance of
honesty in the present instance, since he/she has in the past risked judgment
by disobeying Christ's command to be honest in all things.
When asked to swear to, or to affirm, the
honesty of a statement, a Friend might simply answer to the effect: "I love
Christ's law and fear his judgment at all times, including this. He has
commanded me not to swear but to always be truthful."
PEACE AND
WAR
It has been the belief of the Society of
Friends from its rise that all war is contrary to the teachings of our blessed
Redeemer, Jesus Christ. In His Sermon on the Mount, He admonished us to love
our enemies, to bless those who curse us, and to do good to those who hate us.
Likewise, when Peter smote the servant of the high priest with his sword, our
Lord said to him, "Put up thy sword again into its place: for all they that
take the sword shall perish with the sword" (Matt. 26:52).
In a statement presented to the King of
England in 1660, Friends declared: "The Spirit of Christ by which we are guided
is not changeable, so as once to command us from a thing as evil, and again to
move unto it; and we certainly do know, and testify to the world that the
Spirit of Christ, which leads us into all truth, will never move us to fight
and war against any man with outward weapons, neither for the Kingdom of Christ
nor for the kingdoms of this world."
As we believe that all war is wrong, so we
believe that all preparation or training for war is wrong. Military
conscription is inconsistent with the teaching and practices of
Christianity.
We not only feel abhorrence for the evils
of war and the suffering and misery connected with it, but we desire to work
actively for peace, endeavoring to remove the economic and political causes of
war. We wish to emphasize the brotherhood of all men, and that unity and peace
can only be achieved by the Spirit of Christ working in the hearts of men.
It is our profound belief that the peoples
of the world desire peace, but we do not believe that it can be achieved
through a policy of military strength. Peace can only be built when men seek to
solve their common problems in a spirit of reconciliation and national
humility. We must act with love, forbearance and forgiveness; trusting in God
and in His Spirit working in all men.
Today when talk about defending ourselves
against an enemy is very prevalent, we would encourage our members to keep in
mind that the only true shelter is peace.
As members of a Society which has always
been opposed to war, we must work unfailingly for peace as a Yearly Meeting as
well as in our local communities, ever keeping in mind that peace must begin
with ourselves in each individual heart. Jesus Christ called His disciples, and
still calls us to a deep personal commitment to the way of love. It is only by
the working of this Spirit through us that the problems of war, hate and strife
can be solved and peace brought to a troubled world.
RACIAL
EQUALITY
We believe that all races are equal in
God's sight. Friends feel the burden of racial discrimination, social
injustices and intolerances, and should do what we can, under Divine leading,
to alleviate such wrongs.
RECREATION
Recreation is important for a full
creative life. It should be a time of both physical and mental refreshment.
However, we must be careful to choose what is wholesome and uplifting, and
avoid things that are wasteful of time and money and that tend to draw us away
from the true aim and purpose in life. If we are wholly dedicated to a
God-filled life, we will endeavor to please Him both in our work and in our
recreation.
SIMPLICITY
Even in times when life was less complex
than it is today, Friends emphasized the importance of simplicity. The heart of
Christian simplicity lies in the singleness of purpose which is required by the
injunction to seek first the Kingdom of God. As men seek to express the spirit
of God in their daily lives they realize the necessity of putting first things
first.
Simplicity does not mean that all conform
to uniform standards. Each must determine in the light that is given him what
promotes and what hinders his compelling search for the Kingdom. The call to
each is to abandon those things that clutter his life and to press toward the
goal unhampered. This is true simplicity.
Early Friends refrained from using the
customary names of the months and days of the week since some of these were
unquestionably derived from names of heathen gods.
Pertaining to dress, our principle is to
let decency, simplicity, and utility be our guide. When one is truly trying to
seek first the Kingdom of God he will not be a slave to fashion. Since we
believe our bodies are the temples of the living God, we should dress simply
and modestly. As in dress, so in all our phases of living, we should each one
of us strive to follow the dictates of the Light of Christ within.
Another basic belief of Friends is in the
equal worth of all men in the sight of God. Early Friends avoided titles of
respect, tipping of the hat, and the use of the plural word "you" when
addressing one person, because these customs originated from the practice of
showing undue respect to those in authority and wealth.
TEMPERANCE
It is well known that the use of alcoholic
drinks affects the mind and body harmfully and is a factor in a great number of
crimes. We urge total abstinence from the use or handling of any intoxicants,
not only on the ground that our bodies are the temples of the Holy Spirit, but
also on the principle set forth by the Apostle, "If meat make my brother to
offend, I will eat no flesh while the world standeth, lest I make my brother to
offend" (1 Cor. 8:13).
We wish to stress also that this applies
not only to the use of alcoholic beverages but to narcotics, tobacco, or
anything that is harmful to the individual.
WILLS
It is recommended that Friends make wills
in order to prevent the inconvenience, loss and trouble to their beneficiaries
of dying intestate; that they make their wills under professional advice in
time of health and sound judgment, and dispose of their estates as a proper
stewardship dictates. We counsel that none postpone this duty to a time of
illness or emergency. Making his will in due time can shorten no man's days,
but omission and delay have proved very injurious to many.
Friends are reminded that marriage revokes
a will previously made, and that after marriage a new will should be made
without delay. Also it should be noted that in some states, all real estate
becomes subject to the law of entail upon the birth of the first child; thus
Friends are urged to keep in mind the need for revising their wills from time
to time as circumstances change.
Friends are admonished to regard the
possession of property as a stewardship, valuable for proper use, but liable to
abuse; remembering that all possessory rights are constantly subject to change
through law. Property and its possession involve power. Modern ideals of social
responsibility require that such power be administered under a sense of social
concern. Even modest wealth requires watchfulness in its proper application.
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